Favorite Family Quote

"You don't choose your family. They are God's gift to you, as you are to them."
-Desmond Tutu

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Relationships Reflections


     The relationships and partnerships those are important to me because they show you who you really are in my opinion.  I feel like sometimes it is important to have relationships with other people because everybody needs somebody no matter how much you think you don’t need anybody. They can help you and lead you in the right direction. Sometimes people need guidance to help stay on the right track.
     

     The challenges to developing and maintain relationships that I have learned from my experiences is communication. That is the most important aspect in any relationship. I feel like communication can either make or break a relationship and honesty and trust are also good too. I feel like some special characteristics that make them is having love for one another and being able to listen to one another and letting each other take a turn and talk and listen. I learned that not listening to gossip can also help a relationship He said she said stuff because that was how me and a friend fell apart so if I didn’t see or hear it with my own eyes then I don’t believe. I feel like this could impact my works as an effective early childhood professional because it would help me to know how to deal with children and listen to them when they need to talk. It will also help me to make them feel comfortable around me. Also it will also help when it’s time for me to interact with the parents. I will need to be able to listen to them and value their opinion so would trust me with their kids.

My mother
     Her relationship is so important to me because she is my biggest supporter and I value her opinion so much. She is always there for me and she encourages me a lot. She has never ever put me down and she is a very hardworking woman and I would love to work just as hard as her and be as strong as her. She is also loving, caring, and has the best attitude anyone can ever have despite the many circumstances that she faced in her life. She overcame so many obstacles and I really love and appreciate her for that. She taught me what life is all about and she is still teaching me. She shows me how to love and appreciate the small things in life. She is the best mother that anybody could ever ask for. No matter how many times I fall she is always there to help pick me back up. She will always be the woman’s attitude I would love to have. If she could help the world I know she would because she is just that loving. She gets her attitude from her mom and I appreciate my grandmother for raising her to be the woman she is today. Without my mom I don’t know what I would do and where I would be. She pushed me and always wants the best for me.

Grandparents
     Where do I begin with them? They are also the most precious people who I will always cherish and love no matter what happens. They have been there for me and my sister from day one. They helped us out through so much.  They helped my mom put us through college and they are helping us now as we are in Medical School. They are really the best grandparents that I could ever ask for. They help any and everybody and whenever I need something they are there for us no matter what.  I love the conversations I am able to have with them whenever I need to talk they are there to listen.

Twin Sister
      She means the world to me. Not only is she my twin, sister, but she is also my best friend. No one could ever break the bond that I and her share and no one could ever replace her. She is always there for me whenever I need her. She is the best sister and I wouldn't trade her for anybody else. She helps me when I m in need and she is a very giving person. She always has my back no matter what the circumstances are. She is a big supporter as well as the other people that I mentioned.  We may have our differences, but we let them go and start talking like nothing ever happened. She motivates me to do things when I don’t feel like it and the same goes for her. 

Fiance

    He is the best. I wouldn't ask for anybody better. If I ask for something he will give it to me with no hesitation. He is my best friend. He tells me the truth and keeps it 100% with me. Sometimes I don’t like what he has to says, but I do reflect on it and I appreciate him for saying it to me. I have so much fun being around him and I enjoy being in his presence. He has helped me become a better communicator. He encourage me so much and he always help me to stay positive and remain that way. He know how to put a smile on my face, no matter what type of mood I am in.

Famiy

     From my uncles, aunts, sister and brothers, and my family, I love them. I love the relationship I have with them to. They support me and my twin sister to the fullest. If we need something and they have it then we have it too. I feel that the reason that I am where I am today is because of their support. I love the relationship that I have with each and everyone of them. We are very close and I can talk to them no matter what time of day it is and this holds true for each person that I've listed.